What Is Influence and Why It Matters

Ever wondered what separates a good leader from a truly great one? It's not the job title. It's not the loudest voice in the room. Its influence.
Influence is the ability to shape thoughts, spark action, and shift perspectives—without force or fear. It's how great leaders inspire others to follow, not because they have to, but because they want to.
Let that sink in.
Influence isn't about controlling others. It's about connecting with them. It's built on trust, empathy, and consistent action. You don't need to be the CEO to wield it. Influence can live at every level of a team, in every conversation, and in every decision.
When leaders harness influence, magic happens. Teams rally. Ideas flow. Progress accelerates. Confidence soars.
But what makes influence so powerful?
It starts with presence. Great leaders show up. They listen deeply. They speak with clarity. They show they care. And because of that, people lean in. They feel seen, heard, and valued.
Influence also means leading with values. When your team knows what you stand for, they know where they stand with you. That kind of alignment builds loyalty and drives performance.
It creates ripple effects. A word of encouragement. A thoughtful challenge. A quiet act of courage. These are the moments where influence lives. And over time, they shape a culture where everyone feels empowered to lead.
And here's the kicker: influence is learnable. You can develop it. You can master it. You can use it to elevate your leadership, ignite your team, and conquer your goals.
So, what now?
- Start by listening more. Speak with intention. Lead by example. And always, always focus on the person in front of you.
- Seek feedback often. Reflect regularly. Learn to spot the silent signals—the tone, the body language, the unsaid. Influence lives in those subtleties.
- Encourage growth. Celebrate wins. Hold space for failure. That's how you create an environment where influence thrives.
Because influence isn't about power. It's about impact. And that, right there, is what sets extraordinary leaders apart.
The best leaders don’t demand loyalty. They earn it. They don’t bark orders. They spark ideas. And they don’t just manage people. They mobilise them.
Ready to embrace your influence? Let’s unlock it together. Because the world needs more leaders like you. And your team? They’re ready to be led by someone who leads with heart, not ego.
Trayton Vance
Trayton Vance is the Founder and Managing Director of Coaching Focus Group, one of the UK’s leading leadership coaching consultancies. With over two decades of experience, Trayton helps organisations build coaching cultures that unlock potential, drive engagement, and create lasting impact.
Coaching Focus Group
Specialists in leadership coaching, workplace coaching programmes, and building coaching cultures that stick.
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